And so it goes that we all see things differently, that which suits you can be unacceptable to others. We have to learn that during our short life time we will come across friends and family members also who think in a different way to us and that we need to accept this slight complication as so do they. As we wander along the pathways of life we can begin to see that it does not matter what we tell other people as it matters not what they tell us, we just cannot agree. And so it goes that we need to learn how to accept what is being said to us but not act upon it by choice and then eventually it all goes its own way and no-one is offended.