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Do not try to change who you are because of the needs of another person. Change how you do certain things because you have found a better way because of the wisdom you have gained. Change your hair, your clothes if you wish and try to change your attitude from old worn out expectations or restrictive opinions as you grow and become wiser. The only change that is needed is the change of understanding that we all see things differently depending upon our needs. Make changes to become softer in your responses, more caring in your actions, from this you will benefit. Do not change who you are but rather how you are, see change as growth rather than letting go of what you believe should be and embrace how things could be.