I have lost myself by finding myself, as I have chosen not to be as others wish me to be and to not conform to their ideas. I have discovered a greater side to my being. It is not that I am always right, it is just that sometimes they are wrong. Only I should make my decisions, listen to their advice of course as it could be informed and helpful, but also listen to my own heart and conscience. In doing so I would no doubt follow the right path for me and to learn to become truly the person that I must be.