Each life is personal to each separate individual, we might step into the lives of others but we are the visitor not the creator. What other people chose for themselves comes from their own desires, we might wish different things for them but it is always their life, their choice not ours. Look at your own life and see what you can do to change if necessary where you are. Listen to the opinions offered to you but remember it is your life, your personal dream and follow your heart as you discover your own strength and truth.