Life is what happens when you release the desire to have complete control. Life itself is unformed energy, creating and becoming manifest. We, as human beings, can affect the outcome of so many different elements of what is known as living. We can say yes or no to most actions, we can decide upon our own input, perhaps not the final outcome, but certainly what we contribute. The best action is to take one step at a time, as it is said, test the waters and see what become available to us. Let life happen around you, and grasp what suits you.