Life is rather like cooking a meal; you have to use the ingredients that you have to form the creation. Sometimes different ingredients vary to the extreme. Lots of sweet moments as there are also plenty of bitter times to deal with. Look to see what is available and if necessary be a little brave and adapt what is being offered to you. Every recipe can be changed or added to and with a little care and thought you can bring about a different creation both to your day and to your meal.