When we reflect upon events in life, we tend to see them differently to how they actually were. We see these passages in life through the emotions felt and then if positive we can see the growth that has taken place. Upon reflection we often exaggerate what has transpired whether good or bad, the good becomes awesome and the difficult a disaster. Remember, when you look in a mirror the vision reflected back at you is always slightly changed, this goes also for the many events in life. Upon reflection look upon what was gained and what became growth.