I try to remember not to forget the marvelous events that have transpired throughout my life. It is important not to that forget adversity provides the opportunity for growth. It is in remembering the days that are gone by pondering upon the blessings rather than delving into the suffering that will serve us well. In remembering not to forget does not mean we harbour grudges or the damaging hurt, it means that we do not forget what we need to remember, and that is the joy once shared.