Sometimes problems come upon us and we are floored with what has happened and what we have to do. This is the time to share the load, not in the responsibility but in the support and the offer of information. Life has shown me that friends are not there just for the good times but also to help through the difficult ones. In fact, the act of friendship is to share and we should not just choose only the happy days. Many are often too embarrassed about the circumstances and turn away from help because of this, this is when great friends show their true worth. We have all made mistakes that is life, most of us have all been foolish, been hurt and even lost our finances I some way or other. Ask for help because when others help you they actually are helping themselves also, all life is connected in some way or other.