To stay in control actually means to not be controlled! To understand that many times in life we come upon situations that are difficult to deal with, often to do with the personal actions and attitude of someone else. The most in controlled person is the one who is calm yet acknowledging the difficulties taking place. At times we have to adjust our beliefs rather than trying to make others accept our own. So, control your thoughts and actions and then you will find that control is not needed as resolutions are achieved.