The blessings are the act of giving and receiving the blessings. Looking to help other people, being kind to all and sundry is itself a blessing to you. Within the action  of creating kindness towards another and also having compassion for their circumstances you actually change in some form or other what is taking place. You do not receive random blessings you in fact become the wonderful energy of love in action in all forms and from this your own life will always benefit. Bless the day as you begin it and then watch to see the magic happen.