It is always good to think of doing the ‘nice thing’ regardless of what is happening around you. Endeavoring to be nice to the person who is not being kind towards you or about you means that you raise yourself above their field of negativity. When an argument begins to unfold the nice thing is to not become involved, even walking away if necessary. It is never about losing face but more about gaining strength in your resolve to ‘do the nice thing’. Many will not understand but that is not your problem, your responsibility remains with you, what you will do and how your will react. Doing the nice things every day will take you to a place of contentment, that of being proud of your ability not to react, but to act in a nice way, now that is a nice thing.