There are generally two sides to each story, that which is and that which is affected by emotional reaction. Any incident that comes about will be seen differently due to the personal circumstances of the individual. It is always better to try not to react but to see from both sides what is happening. Emotions featured greatly throughout all of life and when there is fear of any sort, then usually the situation becomes even more complicated. So, when you find yourself caught between the two sides, just stand back, do not judge and allow the truth to come to the fore.