You can get over most of the difficulties that come with the aspect of living a human life. You will be able to get through the suffering of a broken romance, you will learn to accept that for many different reasons the relationship could not work. You can and will find your place in the work situation for all you have to do is, your job! You can if you believe in the strength of your resolve move through the hard times. Of course, you will not be the same for you will have changed as you had to but come through you will and at the same time be not only stronger for it but so very much wiser.